Eliby's Boob Chronicles

Today on the blog as you can tell by the title It might be interesting, Its been a journey for me and my self body image, I have had to learn to love my body just the way it is and probably do a little tweak here and there when it I believe is needed.

Being a woman it's hard work, the changes our bodies go through throughout our lives are a lot , from going through puberty, seeing Juanita every month (my period has a name), giving birth, gaining weight, losing weight and not just from food, can you believe that?, our bodies retain water and that makes us look all puffy and swollen, our hormones are everywhere like me in this paragraph , and lastly….. GRAVITY! Yup we all suffer from it, men and women but mainly women.

Saggy boobs anyone? 🙋🏻‍

I don't have big boobies, mine are an average saggy size lol, they are just not up there where I would like them to be, In fact when I was younger I was part of the itibiti committee , but that soon change at a very young age after I breastfeed my youngest daughter for a full year but that's another story. Nothing that can't be “fixed”, I learned that if there is something about you that does not portray confidence fix it! Change it! do what makes you feel happy, and the goddess that you are.

When It comes to my “style” I can for sure say that it has changed,When I was younger I was insecure, that its the truth, I would show some leg or wear clothing that would accentuate my figure but never expose my stomach or my boobs. Now that I am older, I look at myself in old photos and be like “omg what was wrong with me? I look better now” now I know, what was missing was confidence, feeling cute and sexy on my own skin. I guess for me was part of the process, Now I am older, I look thicker it's a different feeling and all I'm feeling it's myself ( :: twerking:: )

Ok now that all that is out of my chest, on to what we are here for. I love a look with cleavage, sometimes you can get the look with a good bra, it does not have to be an expensive bra it just has to fit right, but other times we feel like showing some more skin. I decided to get the look... KIM K style. If you have not seen it idk where have you been? Because it's all over the internet, I did a little research and this is what happened. (don't judge me)

I did my research and found 4 options, Duck tape, traditional boob tape, Boobie Tape IG brand and my little secret (at least I think it is lol).

1.Duck Tape

I tried the black one, (keep in mind I want this to work) Duck tape is sticky AF and some are waterproof that should have been a red flag, but I was going out and didn't want any wardrobe malfunctions. Duck tape, in my opinion, hold the girls up more, the downside of duct tape it's a little more difficult to work with as it creases, folds and gets stuck to itself easier, which in return creates more bumps that show over your clothes along with the list of No’s listed below.

No = it gives your boobs a flat unnatural shape that its definitely more noticeable

No No= You can't adjust if you do it will not only stick properly it and not last

I managed to put it and somewhat make it look normal and they healed pretty nicely Until it was time to take it off. Peeling it off on it on was a no, no I used baby oil and it was coming off easier when I got to the areola GURRRL! lets just say that I had to get in the shower and take it off less painfully, my skin was so irritated and red for days.

No, No No=Just don't do it!

2. Traditional boob tape

Another No for me, no because I have uneven boobs (TMI) what I mean is that one is bigger than the other, they are not sisters or cousins not related may be adopted, but I read somewhere that most of us do and this tape accentuates the unevenness lol.

3. Booby Tape (IG brand)

After this fiasco, I said to myself just stop being cheap and spend your coin if you want it to work. I had seen this so-called “booby tape” brand on Instagram that had an awesome review of women from all shapes and sizes, I was excited and ready until I was ready to pay…. 2 pairs for $30.00 NOP!!!! I want something that works, but not for that price. Come on only two pairs and they are not reusable like the silicone ones? I like my money where I can see it not hide it. So nop I did not buy it.

4.Gravity Tape (my secret)

I didn't give up, my cheap ass kept looking for a dupe, I googled “skin tape” and all kinds of tapes came up. a familiar image appeared, why didn't i this of this before? Sports Tape sold on Amazon 2 rolls for $10.00 SOLD ( Dancing emoji). I used this in my knuckles and fingers when I used to play volleyball in high school. The tape looks and feels a lot like fabric and it’s very stretchy. After a couple of tries and half a role I was a Pro. I put it to the test one night, I danced the night away and my girls were right up there where I put them 4 hours earlier. When taking it off no problem at all as the fabric is stretchy and lightweight and has the perfect amount of adhesive, but to be on the safe side I used coconut oil to take it off, and it did very easily.

Bottom line here is... show them off if you feel like it, it does not matter if they are big, small, saggy or uneven, and if you are up for a little tun up then why not snatch them up with tape lol and step out with confidence that no one needs to know you have a yard of tape on your boobs, (shhhhh) It will be our secret.

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As always Thank you Dolls for reading all the way to the end, It means a lot to me. Let me know on the comment below some of your tricks.

XoXo

Eliby

Happy New Year!!!

DISCLAIMER: My intention with this post it's not to make you think that you need to change anything from your body, but to ”enhance” your "flaws", and love yourself with them and without them, at the end of the day they have made us who we are.